note: people looking for the "unplugged" posts, they're below this...

my male friends don't believe in the ladder theory, they say it's too generalized for one. secondly, they think it doesn't say much for women. i think they just don't get it :D

i'd like to clarify my position on it further, but some unexpected news ( the punch-u-in-ur-gut-take-ur-breath-away variety) has tampered with my ability to think clearly. i will address everyone's answers, but not today, so ammar, shibli, usman, ammar, farhad - wait for on update...